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Mary Fearon is the founder of OnPrpose, a strategic communications firm that helps leaders and teams communicate with clarity, conviction, and impact. She works across strategy, leadership, and communication, which means she knows how to get past the polished version of someone’s story and into the moments that actually shaped them.

In this episode, Mary helps me trace the path from childhood systems thinker to Fractional COO. The conversation moves through Kermit the Frog, early independence, emotional steadiness, and the work I do now to help Founders bring calm to the chaos inside their business. 

What Kermit the Frog Taught Me 

Kermit the Frog was my first model of operational leadership.

Not because he had a perfect system. He definitely didn’t.

He was behind the scenes, trying to keep the whole show moving while the theater was falling apart, the personalities were pulling in different directions, and the pressure kept building.

I saw the work behind the performance. Someone had to hold the vision, manage the moving parts, calm the chaos, and help creative people do great work together.

That is still the work.

In this conversation with Mary Fearon on And That Changed Everything, I share the moments that shaped how I think about systems, leadership, emotional steadiness, and the role of a Fractional COO.

The core lesson is simple: if one person has to hold everything together for the show to go on, the system isn’t built to scale.

This Episode Includes

• How I learned to see the world through systems
• Why calm matters when a business is growing fast
• The hidden cost of being the person every decision runs through
• How Founders accidentally train dependence inside their teams
• Why emotional steadiness and operational clarity belong together
• What it takes to move from reactive leadership to a business that can scale

When Growth Starts To Feel Like Too Much

Scaling can feel thrilling at first. New clients, a growing team, and bigger opportunities are signs the business is working.

Then the pressure changes.

Your team gets busier, yet still needs you to make key decisions. Client work keeps moving, yet it depends on your availability. Your calendar fills with meetings, approvals, and problem-solving. You want to step back and think about what’s next, yet the business keeps pulling you back into the day-to-day.

Activity isn’t impact. If your calendar is full and work is slipping, you’re stuck in motion.

That is where operational support changes the story. I help Founders and CEOs stop carrying the business alone by building clearer systems, stronger leadership, and calmer execution. 

The Bigger Lesson For Founders

Growth without operating cadence isn’t growth, it’s chaos with revenue.

This episode is a reminder that operations are not just processes, spreadsheets, and meeting rhythms. Operations are how your team gets steady. They are how decisions move without constant escalation. They are how your business becomes less reactive and more resilient.

A Fractional COO brings hands-on operational leadership. I translate your vision into scalable processes, help optimize workflows, support team leadership, and reduce your operational burden.

Trusted Advisor support is different. It gives you strategic guidance, prioritization, and a seasoned partner to help you think clearly. Fractional COO support steps further into implementation and leadership with your team.

Both create relief. The right fit depends on how much hands-on operational support your business needs right now.

Ready to Grow? Take the Quiz and Find Out

Not sure where your operations stand right now? The Growth Readiness Quiz is a quick way to find out. It looks at how your business is running across team alignment, decision-making, workflow, and leadership capacity, and shows you where the gaps are.

You’ll walk away with a clearer picture of what’s working, what’s costing you time, and where to focus first. Think of it as the starting point before the strategy call.

The “Aha” Moment

The Kermit story works because it names what so many Founders feel. 

You’re trying to keep the show moving. You’re managing the personalities, the pressure, the money, the deadlines, and the dream. From the outside, the business looks successful. Behind the scenes, you know the system needs to work better.

You don’t have to stay in the middle of everything for the business to grow.

With the right operational playbook, your business can scale with stronger systems, clearer leadership, and a team that carries more of the work with confidence.